Personality Matters

It’s being a while I have been contemplating on the topic of “Maintaining a Good Personality” in the society. I don’t really get a hang of what exactly it means. But finally understood in life that that’s the only thing which matters.

Now a days, life is not as easy as it used to be before. I often compare it with my life when I was a kid and find the other one to be more exciting and full of enthusiasm. Every word that you speak out now has good or bad in it. People judge you from what you say. So you must have control over what you say. If it is a professional matter, you may end up screwing up your career progression. If it is a personal matter, you may end up screwing up a marriage. Life has to move on. But you have to be the best judge of what you say. You can’t show up a persona that is true of yourself. You have to wear a mask where everything is good. Remember, everybody has problems. But your personality has to show up only the best things about you. That’s what going to win you everything in this world.

Childhood was not like this. It was simple. You behave the way you wanted to. You talk whatever comes to your mind. Everything was fun. There is no complacency, no hidden facts and no hard feelings. I wish I could go back and start my journey all over again. As we grow we are supposed to behave matured. We are supposed to make sacrifices. We are supposed to think on what we speak. We are supposed to be political in nature. We are supposed to be showing everything good about us. I don’t know, but I feel this to be a little weird. We all are human beings, we have our own way of looking at things. I still believe a little girl is much happier than a grown up one. It’s life and it goes on with all confusion and we never realize that we are just in the process of making it more complicated.

Thank you,

Bijaya